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Can psychology help avoid festive arguments?

As families gather for festive time together, tensions can rise. David Robson delves into the science to find the best technique to stop arguments getting the better of us

By David Robson

11 December 2024

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As the end of 2024 approaches, I would like to say a big thank you to everyone who has shared their dilemmas with me over the past year. For my festive column, let us address a nearly universal complaint: holiday arguments.

It should be no surprise that feelings run high over the holiday season. We may hope to spend the day bonding over our shared past, but life is more complicated than a Christmas movie, as old resentments bubble under the surface. Soak everyone in alcohol and it takes just one small spark to set the whole gathering alight with…

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